Dear Parent/Guardian of a Fifth Grade,
As part of our annual Boys Night Out and Girls Night Out, the video on puberty, entitled “Lets Just Talk” will be shown to 5th graders at Skyway Elementary School. Boys Night Out will be on Thursday, April 11 at 5:30 PM and Girls Night Out will be on Thursday, April 25 at 5:30pm. An invited medical professional will present the program and film. You are encouraged to attend the evening program and presentation with your son.
Each evening also includes dinner, dessert, activities and presentations that will help in your chilld's transition to middle school. In the past, breakout sessions have included Growing and Changing, Making Healthy Choices, Sportsmanship and Team Building.
A parent/guardian signature is required in order for your student to view the video and participate in the discussion. Invitations for each event will be sent home after winter break.
If you wish to preview the film, here at school, or if you have any questions or concerns, please contact me, Roni Melton, at RMelton@cdaschools.org.
Preparing for Adolescence
from The Complete Guide to Baby & Child Care
When your child was a newborn, coping with short nights of sleep, dirty diapers and crying spells may have hampered your ability to marvel at the incredible little person before you. When she was a turbocharged and at times defiant toddler, the nonstop effort required to keep her (and your home) safe and sound may not have given you much time to appreciate her rapidly developing abilities.
Similarly, when your adolescent experiences normal growing pains and emotional turbulence (and possibly a crisis or two) during the coming years, it may be all too easy to lose sight of a number of very encouraging and gratifying developments.
Yes, there will be a lot of problems to solve, arriving in all shapes and sizes (often when you least expect them). You will need to guide, monitor and sometimes intervene to keep the cultural wolves a respectable distance from your teenager's door. You may have to put out some fires or even an occasional four-alarm blaze.
Hopefully, through it all you will be able to recognize and appreciate in your adolescent many of the positive attributes that are common in this age-group. How and when these qualities will be expressed will vary with each individual, but be on the lookout for them — and be sure to express your appreciation when they show up:
- Energy and enthusiasm
- Concern for the needs of others — often coupled with a willingness to offer help in ways that adults might find risky or "unrealistic"
- A desire for meaningful relationships
- A sense of humor that can be witty and insightful
- A concern for fairness and justice
- An interest in other cultures and countries
- Development of new skills in athletics, the arts, crafts, the use of tools, writing and speaking — often with extraordinary achievements
- Curiosity — not only about the way things work in the world but why
- Willingness to commit to worthwhile causes and to back up that commitment with specific actions
- Ability (and attention span) to appreciate sophisticated music, drama, films and artwork
- A deep desire for a relationship with God and a willingness to make a lifelong commitment to serve Him
Despite the relatively few years separating one generation from the next, most adults seem to have amnesia about their own adolescence. Parents who have already "been there, done that" may have difficulty recalling how they felt and thought between the ages of twelve and twenty-one. As you read through the stages of adolescent development in this article series, try to recall what you were experiencing during those years. Whether your effort brings fond memories, a lot of pain or merely a sigh of relief that you don't have to go through that again, you will connect more smoothly with your teenager(s) if you can remember what it's like to walk a mile in their sneakers.
Adapted from the Complete Guide to Baby & Child Care, a Focus on the Family book published by Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. Copyright © 1999, Focus on the Family. All rights reserved. International copyright secured. Used by permission